Your wives friends are just horrible little Voltures and spineless cowards, definitely go have that drink with your friend and have some time to just calm down and have a break from this shit show. People can be so two-faced with that kind of thing. Also, your wife needs to drop her biphobic friends who are being a negative influence on her and you by proxy. Must feel betrayed and really hurt. Reading this brought me back to heavy hearted times. I just chain smoked and clinched the steering wheel so hard I thought I was gonna break it. Id say therapy but honestly no, she knows she fucked up and instead of standing up for you, let it happen. Couples counselling may help as well. Does it not show a serious weakness in character that she bull shitted like that? I wouldn't be able to think of anything else when having sex with her after hearing her criticize me. It's going to suck, but it's always worth it to try and move on. I told her she needed to answer everything I ask her honestly and she promised she would. After reading this post, I was so shocked I seen this as the first comment but was also laughing badly. Even if it was a close call, you dont say that. You are who you are, it's a done deal. That's a lifetime story . Ebony milf with big tits, shaking young boy's cock in rough modes 06:00. Itll be hurtful to both of you for a long time and you probably both need therapy but if you truly do love each other, itll be worth it. A DAD whose wife and kids stopped talking to him because he was covered in tattoos says he has no regrets. She stopped criticizing after that. When I was married my ex-wife I had a problem with erectile distinction for a few months, due to massive stress at work. But she also initiates in the bedroom a lot, which means at least the main idea of her bullshit is false. So much this. And sometimes we have to forgive stupid people because we love them anyway. Before my wife was with me she dated a man named Tom. You have a couple of children and a good life up until now. Let's give your wife the benefit of the doubt for a moment. I think your wife is genuine when she said it was just drunken girl talk and that she was intimidated into saying things because of her friends. Try marriage counseling and perhaps moving away for a new start. I would suggest that you avoid any hasty decisions that would blow your life up until you take some time to process this on your timeline. Honor every feeling, but don't become paralysed by them. That's so fucked man. They seem like they knew exactly what she was talking about, like it was a familiar topic. Best of luck man. Regardless, hilarious. If yes then walk and bear the burdens of the breakup, but if you think you together are worth saving, then do something to sort out the issues and move beyond it. Anywho, I keep listening and one of her friends mentions that she ran into Tom while grocery shopping and found out that hes visiting family in town. you need to think long and hard about if you think you can ever trust her again. If she does in fact really care about you - she will wait. I probably wouldnt have. Me: girls, get your better halves and get the fuck out of my house They all pop right up and walk past me. He and I werent real close, but wed hang out here and there and always enjoyed one anothers company at get togethers and stuff. She outed you to your group of friends without asking you about it. But then she says.the only hurdle I had to get past with (me) was.well, you guys know.they all were kinda like mhmm as if to affirm they knew what she was talking about. If she isn't willing to do both of those things, then she is proving she doesn't value you enough, or is sorry enough for the damage she's caused, to be worth staying with. But 2 years later she is still talking about your most sacred aspect of your personal life, by filling in her friends on the most private part of your life. Its just so cowardly and shows she's not on your team. The guy was asking her if she'd told me about them being together in the past. Once your sexual history was out in the open and left you vulnerable to her girlfriends judgements, she decided to join in and talk shit about it and mention that she thinks of other men while pleasuring you since it turns her off. Which means wherever you gothere will be a little voice in the back of your mind wondering if people are judging you or talking shit about you behind your back, I'm not sure how you move forward in this situation but I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to, I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to. Frankly I would be more able to forgive infidelity than I would these kind of conversations. You never speak about your wife in that manner so why do you have to put up with it. I would never be able to sleep with my wife again but OP might be better than me. There is no combination of words that will make all this just go away. Normally I'd say you have to share it but I'm not sure what that looks like. I would be so freaking upset & sad. It was a private part of your life that you trusted her with. Seriously I have a whole lot of respect for you for how you reacted. Im sorry about your situation; not sure what I would do. You don't want her or the kids hanging around with him. Just want to say the other husband is a stand up guy. Stay strong man I can only hope you can move on from this with your confidence restored. I was going to say something identical. I don't know why you'd even give it a B-. And if it was an accident, why did she give them details about what kinks you have? Your sexuality isn't really fodder to take the piss out of. How you treat your relationship with your wife is up to you, but I would say to her that her friends are homophobic and need to never come by the house again. That means she's been laughing about their sex life for a couple years, after outing him and then hiding it from him. OK she was drunk and your sexuality came out in a stupid moment. Ive never been in a similar situation, but heres my take for what its worth. you sound like a fuckin pussy, enjoy your manliness, as you your wife fucks u in the ass LOL. We have good jobs that the pandemic didnt effect too much. This is probably something couples therapy can help you navigate. She criticized him and tried to get me to break up with him. She and her group of mean girls clearly cant accept that. For example, he keeps in touch with some of his exs and although it's his business he is always transparent with me because he know how I would feel if it was behind my back. She might actually be into the stuff you guys do but is pressured by her friends to be a shitty person. The fact she cares more about her homophobic friends opinions of her than her relationship with her partner says a lot. No partner with a shred of empathy or decency would value the opinions of their friends over their partner's wellbeing. That should have been end of story then and there. Would she still have the friends over knowing how they feel? First let me say your SO is the fucking worst in my humble opinion. Yeah, I'm a married woman. She violated your trust in one of the worst possible ways and there really isn't any way to walk it back, The thing that sucks the most is that now that there was a blowupthose judgmental friends who she told about your sexualitywill be running their mouths to all their other friends and coworkers and more and more people will be told something you never wanted shared. And the fact that you're now married and settled down with a woman means you probably have a preference for women overman anyways it's 2021 dude closet doesn't have a lot of people left in it and, needing it to still feel manly is the ultimate problem here. Id also like to see those fun-o-phobes pack their bags and get out of your wifes life. I turned around and stormed off to our room. Yea, some people are just too worried what their peers think and arent (strong/brave) enough to go against the group. I could only imagine how crap you feel right now. I'm not saying she will, I don't know her and can't make that call. Just the circles I run in a guess. Fuck her if she cannot be your confidant she's worthless, tell her to get rid of her hateful friends. She is the person who is supposed to have your back the most, and not only did she not, she threw you to the wolves and also took some bites herself. Your life, you know the relationship better than us, but this is plenty to break a marriage. I don't think she is disinterested in the guy, but I will say I don't tolerate that kind of weakness. Its very helpful to be able to be open about everything with our friends, cause it makes our open marriage life so much easier without having to keep it secret and hidden, so Im really sorry that you guys have to keep your bisexuality such a secret. Im bi and from a close knit, homophobic religious family. 1) Your wife was so freaked she let the fact that you're bi slip out two years ago yet continues to discuss it with them? How long has she been friends with them? Author Hazel McBride claimed that she's so "average-looking" that she feels uneasy around her more handsome husband in a now-viral TikTok. this sounds like a case of she only sorry she got caught. No one cares. He heard her, not us) about visualizing other men. Do not let anybody minimize this either. She betrayed your trust, and she makes fun of your sexuality to her friends? This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. Which is obviously shit because she's willing to throw you to the wolves, but not admit her fun time with you. Be happy anyway. Let her know that if she wants to patch this up, its on her. Firstly: Even though it may be difficult: try and see this as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship. About everything. I am so sorry this has happened to you. She may actually not understand your bisexuality because its been something she said shes fine with but never actually confronted. Including mutual friends that were homophobic and a girl who hated my guts (and my ex totally knew about those things). I agree though it does sound like she started the mocking of his sexuality. Don't go silent on her. Honestly I admire you had the balls to call her out in front of her friends and kick everyone out! I started putting a voice recorder in my wife's car after u caught her cheating. Don't go broadcasting it. This is now twice that she has blabbed something intensely personal while intoxicatedthat you know about. I honestly don't know if your marriage can survive this. Im so sorry, my jaw hit the floor reading this. When she answered I could tell shed been crying and was a wreck. Couples counseling could work but it may also not be necessary, you two could work on it together. That that is a topic of conversation is absurd. In that space is our power to choose our response. She's lying to you to save face. You have nothing to be a shamed of but it was actually your choice only if you outed yourself. I know from experience when you say Ill kinds of shit and they say whatever makes your friends happy or agree especially if youre drinking and they all laugh about it I believe your wife really does love you but she needs to stand up for you with your friends and those friends arent real friends so they have no business in your home do you need some serious counseling for your children sake. Her friends have always been cool to me. It was never between you and them anyway. I feel for you and wish you the best. You will never have that trust again. Your story is isn't as violent, but its just as embarrassing and horrifying to hear. Be kind anyway. I couldn't stop laughing at the first sentence in your comment. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your marriage. That's why her apology doesn't feel like it's enough - because it isn't. The bottom pine is you're supposed to be able to confide in her about these things and she's mishandled your trust. Who cares. There's a wide gulf between those that think that's okay and the rest of us. It's mainly drunk talk and a bit of peer pressure getting to your wife and she clearly regrets it We all make mistakes sometimes but this is how you grow as a couple! Thats not the kind of person you stay with. Why should he have to tell the whole world his sexuality? Whats going to happen if your kids turn out to be not straight or not Cis? Divorce is an option if you cant get past this but it deserves an effort. Any other friends you have in common likely know. 1.) You can't unhear it and if you don't bring it up, your resentment will grow and your self-esteem. From one bi to another, I'm sorry you had to go through this, it's a bisexual's nightmare scenario to hear your long-term partner say this kind of shit. Thats something she and you will have to work on because she shouldnt be embarrassed of it, but at the same time I kind of understand how she can buckle under the pressure of her friends opinions. Most people in the comments seem to be going off of the deep end here. She buys all kinds of outfits and toys without me even suggesting it! This doesnt excuse anything. Gaslight, blameshifting, shamming, begging by the end and finally divorce. If thats true then she needs to work on her confidence to be herself around her friends and nit be pressured to say things to sound cool. I mean, what you probably should have done was just walk quietly back to the garage and talk about it in private with your wife later- like an adult. What you say too each other is one thing but to the outside world your SO is the best cook lover protector whatever. They'll only hear "he likes sex with men. I heard their conversation. I would not have been able to control myself the same way no doubt. I think forcing her to go no contact with certain friends is crossing a line in a relationship that can never be repaired. Do you actually believe that she didn't have any agency? I told this to my then partner with all the trust in the world. Best of luck. It may actually be useful separating your real friends from the judgemental ones. That's plain shitty. Its inappropriate her friends would gush over her ex with her (a married woman): I dont want to hear anyone talking up some guy I used to date while Im with someone else. Yeah, I have a hunch that her apology is going to include counseling and new friends. The Geni has escaped from the bottle, as there's no chance of putting it back in, you need to deal with the humiliation that you feel in how it was told. Best of luck, stay happy, and be you (those who disagree can simply get out). Tom hasn't been relevant for seven years. EVERYTHING she did was awful and she clearly knew that she messed up (more than once). This is the lesson: never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never -- in nothing, great or small, large or petty -- never give in except to convictions of honour and good sense. Take a few more days. We have 2 amazing kids. From everything, the most painful one was when exposition. Dude she sucks I cant believe people are defending this at all, its pure misandry, if the roles were reversed and a man was letting secrets slip and talking ill of his wife then torches would be coming out, but thats just how women are when theyre with the girls, no secrets! Fuck all that haha, that is so disrespectful. Especially the part where she acts like its a close call between you and Tom to her girlfriends. Id rather show my support. Isn't this basically reverse sexism? I would 100% be considering divorce over this, if in OPs shoes. Definitely think about whether or not this is a dealbreaker. I am floored you are the only person who has pointed this out. Honestly, I don't know if I'd be able to get past never being able to trust her with personal stuff again. She should have known to do that herself beforehand. Allow yourself to feel all of your emotions and really process them before jumping into heavy discussion with her. Repeat offenders shouldnt get second chances and neither should first time ones. I 100% understand why you're so upset. I also really dont like how shes the one who initiates/etc yet was making fun of it?? It's terrible. Or so that she wont identify you? Can you explain this because its giving homophobia, It could damage his reputation. Is she going to put them as well and claim she didnt mean it and that she was just drunk or gossiping? Also, if shes lying to you about this, I feel absolutely certain that are other things you dont know. You have an issue, address it. I wouldnt let her off the hook easily, but we all say and do some dumb stuff and I think she deserves a chance make it up to you and resolve the situation. This was not stupid. My late uncle had to watch his wife leave him on his sick bed because she couldn't bring herself so be seen that way, talking about "a whole me tending to a sick man, me I can't oh let his family do it ".. Your anger is justified, but breaking up your wonderful family over this is too much and a shame? He said his wife told him what happened and he wanted to let me know he doesnt give a shit about me being bi and thinks the while situation is fucked. Drunk or not, does not excuse their unwarranted behaviour. The women were all on the patio outside. My guess is that she was only sorry he caught her and she's been crying because she's about to become a divorced mom. Take care of yourself, you have the right to take more time if you need it. The fact that her mindset even thinks doing things like anal play are bi tells me she probably has some internalized homophobia she needs to deal with. I turned to my wife with a raised eyebrow and announced I guess you didnt have me pegged to be a man that would stand up for himself! And I majestically brushed my cape back and walked right out of the house. You don't have to let it go. A random guy you barely know has stuck more by you tonight than your own wife does on the regular. Or will she stand by him, tell her friends she is the one who was lying because she was afraid of their reactions, and own her shit? Trust is one of those things that simply cannot be regained when broken. She needs to do something to show how sorry she is. I don't know that I could ever trust and be vulnerable with her again. I am pretty much an open book with my partners. The world is bad enough with mean enough people, you dont need your team mate trash talking you too. ! for a few minutes. If Tom popped back into the picture at any point, Id have told my partner what happened. Im about to grab the beers and be on my way. Anything she says in the moment right now can't be trusted because she'll do or say whatever it takes to keep you. If my wife was badmouthing me behind my back, I'd be beyond pissed. Her exact words "I feel like i settled for him. I agree with the counseling. Your wife's unfortunate refusal to do the same speaks to her character too. Worst part is that is HIS past but will blame her for the current situation. 2. Maybe you could come around trusting her, but i wouldn't trust her friends. Couple of things: I have a very close group of girlfriends. Dont slide back to her. Most people will say bi/lesbian women are "ok" because it's "hot" (I've been told that), and will see bi/gay men as an atrocity just because it's men with other men. OP-the one man who reached out to you, I feel he is a solid individual and have to give You major points to talking with him. A marriage counselor should probably be your first step. Fucking judgemental pieces of shit. Your wife is a pretty disgusting person. Being a bi women in a straight committed relationship, I can connect with you in some sense because I do hear "you can't be bi, you're married to a man" or I had previous partners that were horribly insecure about my sexuality. Prepare to be known as 'that guy who is really sensitive about his sexuality". Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. The slider to the patio from the kitchen is open. Take your time, make sure you heal on your timeline not hers. I dunno, this feels like a day time drama and not a real story! How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? Sorry if this is all over the place. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. You have every right to be pissed. I wish you the best of luck and although feelings usually subside after sleep, please don't just say everything is alright when this incident has revealed fundamental issues in the relationship's trust and overall what she deems to be acceptable conversations with friends. I would never be able to fully be myself around my wife again after such an event, and to me that means there's just no way we can work anymore. She really messed this up, she's immature and worried about offending the wrong people. Is she going to listen to her friends claim that you being bi has somehow swayed them? Fourthly, buy that man a beer. But try couples counseling and go from there. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. That's the truth. Suggest you stay away for a bit and do some thinking about what you want and whether its possible for her to mend this damage and that you can accept her behavior and forgive her. I might not go as far as to say shes only sorry she got caught, but the current reaction is definitely because she got caught. Therapy is what you need. Being shitty is easy, being a good person is too Clearly choices have been made. Also, she may have "let it slip" 2 years ago, but obviously they've all talked about it since. Any words of wisdom for the talk tomorrow? That power over you is now dissipated - especially if you do your best to be yourself and act normal. Sounds like shes really sorry. You definitely have every right to be upset and angry, but I honestly feel like she is telling you the truth, and they were just unfortunately things you werent supposed to hear. Take some you time and work out where you are that's your starting point my man edit good luck. I'd be crushed if I heard my wife's friend's say something like that, and then she just hangs me out to dry instead of standing up for me. It was a low blow, but fuck that shit. She sounds like she cares way too much about what these women think. She's betrayed you. It was lovely that the mate called you and said what he did. One of the things they dont tell you about relationships is that you gotta be able to stand up for your SO when the time comesso even if OPs wife doesnt actually believe all that and bent to peer pressure, that really sucks and Im sorry she feels that way with her friends, but she shouldnt be surprised if she loses her husband. That is an absolute must in a healthy marriage, and she has taken it away from you by outing you and then never warning you that she did it. I mean, youre not wrong petty king/queen. Personal details should remain private. When she closes her eyes shes thinking of other men, one of those other men is probably Tom. I don't know what I'd do. Your other half should be your protector but it turns out she's the instigator of making fun out of your sexuality - which should only be discussed between the two of you. Don't minimize the situation and don't let anyone gaslight you into thinking you are overreacting or that this isn't divorce-level situation. She did not need to provide more information. But I also feel like it's a betrayal you can come back from. Ha fucking ha. Things ended when Tom took a job across the country and my wife chose not to follow him. At the very least there's some trust work that will need to be done to rebuild some things. Also she devolved some abusivo behaviour which, according to her was due to the lack of sex. I want to know how shes going to deal with her friends going forward. Go see a divorce attorney. MILF Teacher seduce to Fuck Anal by Young Boy 12:11. I can't stress enough how important it was that you didn't let this fester and at the same time you removed yourself from the situation to give yourself time to sort out your feelings. That's where your power is. Your sex life sounds amazing. I'm wondering if your lack of fighting in your communication may be related to her not being open and honest with you as you are with her. Then, when I was in the bathroom (just outside of their bedroom door), I could hear them talking about me. You took that better than I would have. It's healthy and necessary. Chin up man. Implying that OP's "flaw" as husband material is because he not 100% straight and slept with men is homophobic. I'm glad she apologized. I even heard her shoosh the friend who said it and peek inside the kitchen but I hid behind the counter and kept listening. How many people knew about it since she let it slip, considering she's telling the truth and it was only two years ago that she told somebody. At a minimum she should have come clean about the bachelorette party thing the moment it happened. And what the fuck do you expect?? It was over something dumb, but she's fucking nuts and didn't want me to date anybody. Kidding aside. Best of luck. Then one friend says I could never be with a man who like men. Cool off first of all. I absolutely agree. Of course she's only sorry she got caught but think about it, how many times they've been making fun of you from their girls night outs? Watch your back op!! Can you trust a person like that after all this? No matter how much she tells you she really enjoys it, there will now always be that voice in your head that tells you she really doesn't. Im extremely sorry this happened to you OP. One friend asked her if she considered it and she said yes but ultimately she chose to stay with me because I made her happy and treated her better. I never said a word to anyone because I knew how bad she felt about that. Especially with the "gay" things they do. Also, she doesn't like your sex life. I could hear what they were saying and I heard one of her friends mention Tom. You heard the truth when she was talking to her friends, about your private life, without your knowledge. 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